" When the abuse began, she would “go somewhere else”; she would “not be there.” By this, she meant that her mind had learned how to dissociate Julia’s self from what was going on around her, how to transport her awareness to a place far enough away that, at most, she felt she was watching the life of a little girl named Julia from a very great distance. A sad little girl named Julia was helpless and could not escape; but psychologically, Julia’s self could go “somewhere else,” could be psychologically absent. Simply put, Julia did not remember her childhood because she was not present for it.       All "

― Martha Stout , The Myth of Sanity: Divided Consciousness and the Promise of Awareness