" It is liberating to be brought back to one’s insignificance. We are allowed to abandon the pretense that we are more than we are and find comfort in knowing that we are enough. We hand over our self-dramatizing intensity and the need to get the seat of honor and find the thrill that is in our “place”—in the last row and worst seat. "

― Gregory Boyle , Barking to the Choir: The Power of Radical Kinship