" And then the captains of merchant ships can take their wives to sea with them if they wish, and in the Navy they’re not allowed to.” “I shouldn’t want to take my wife to sea with me,” said William. “A wife would be fearfully in the way.” Marianne gritted her teeth. Oh, to be a man, and not to be dependent upon the whim of a man to live! "

― Elizabeth Goudge , Green Dolphin Street