QUOTE : One thing should be clear, but apparently it is not: if this were indeed our nature, we would be living in paradise.<br /><br />If pain, humiliation, and physical injury made us happy, we would be ecstatic.<br /><br />If being sold on street corners were a good time, women would jam street corners the way men jam football matches.<br /><br />If forced sex were what we craved, even we would be satisfied already.<br /><br />If being dominated by men made us happy, we would smile all the time.<br /><br />Women resist male domination because we do not like it.<br /><br />Political women resist male domination through overt, rude, unmistakable rebellion. They are called unnatural, because they do not have a nature that delights in being debased.<br /><br />Apolitical women resist male domination through a host of bitter subversions, ranging from the famous headache to the clinical depression epidemic among women to suicide to prescription-drug tranquilization to taking it out on the children; sometimes a battered wife kills her husband. Apolitical women are also called unnatural, the charge hurled at them as nasty or sullen or embittered individuals, since that is how they fight back. They too are not made happy by being hurt or dominated.<br /><br />In fact, a natural woman is hard to find. We are domesticated, tamed, made compliant on the surface, through male force, not through nature. We sometimes do what men say we are, either because we believe them or because we hope to placate them. We sometimes try to become what men say we should be, because men have power over our lives.