QUOTE : What comes to mind when you think about relationships? Do you think of having long conversations? Spending time with someone? Going out of your way to make someone happy? Maybe your mind goes straight to a specific person and how much he or she means to you. Or perhaps your view of relationships isn’t so warm and cozy. Maybe every time you’ve opened your heart and life to someone you’ve been disappointed and burned. If that’s the case, the thought of relationships might be associated with insecurity.