QUOTE : Of each critical juncture of choice, one may usefully ask, “Does this path<br />enlarge or diminish me?” Usually, we know the answer to the question. We<br />know it intuitively, instinctively, in the gut. Choosing the path that enlarges<br />is always going to mean choosing the path of individuation. The gods want<br />us to grow up, to step up to that high calling that each soul carries as its<br />destiny.