" Did you hear about the Jesuit superior who was a great success? People would ask him, “How come you’re such a great success as a superior?” He would reply, “Very simple. The formula is simple: I agree with everyone. I just agree with everyone.” They would say, “Don’t be absurd. How can you be a successful superior, agreeing with everybody?” He would reply, “That’s right. How could I be a successful superior, agreeing with everybody?” So, "

― Anthony de Mello , Rediscovering Life: Awaken to Reality