" So God, life, and destiny have to loosen the loyal soldier's grasp on your soul, which up to now has felt like the only “you” that you know and the only authority that there is. Our loyal solider normally begins to be discharged somewhere between the ages of thirty-five and fifty-five, if it happens at all; before that it is usually mere rebellion or iconoclasm. "

― Richard Rohr , Falling Upward: A Spirituality for the Two Halves of Life