" That is all I ever need to remember on any given day, the ultimate condensation of the first three steps, or the Three Step Waltz, as we call it: I can’t; God can; I think I’ll let God. I am powerless over people, places, and things, unable to save or fix or rescue anyone, including myself. But God can, through the movement of grace in our lives: grace as "

― Richard Rohr , Breathing Underwater: Spirituality and the 12 Steps