" ...suffering is part of life. I know that. You know that. I don't know why we forget it when something truly awful happens to us, but we do. We wonder Why me? and How can this be? and What terrible God would do this? and The very fact that this has been done to me is proof that there is no God! We act as if we don't know that awful things happen to all sorts of people every second of every day and the only thing that's changed about the world or the existence or nonexistence of God or the color of the sky is that the awful thing is happening to us. "
― Cheryl Strayed , Tiny Beautiful Things: Advice on Love and Life from Dear Sugar