" It tells you that you are responsible for other people’s feelings and behavior; it may even tell you that your behavior made someone else sick, as when a father says, “Look what you kids have done, you’ve made your mother sick!” This results in your having a grandiose sense of responsibility. Toxic guilt is one of the most damaging ways your preschool inner child was wounded. "

― John Bradshaw , Homecoming: Reclaiming and Healing Your Inner Child