" I want to mourn her," Jared said. "I feel her. I can feel the love I had for her. That he had for her. I want to remember her, even if that means I have to mourn her. That’s not too much to bear for her memory. It’s not, is it?"

"No," Cloud said. "I guess it’s not. "

― John Scalzi , The Ghost Brigades (Old Man's War, #2)