" How I wish, how fervently I ache, to take my mother's hand, kiss her check,tell her I love her, and watch her smile. For me it was not, nor can ever be. But for you, reach out now. Reach out for your mother's hand-the hands of those you love. Say I love you.
Don't wait. "

― M.J. Burke Sr. , Funeral in a Feminine Dress: Depravity Reborn as Virtue