" Ah, Elsa. You got a wrong picture of yourself.
Even if that is true, what does a person do about it? The things your parents say and the things your husband doesn't say become a mirror, don't they? You see yourself as they see you. and no mater how far you come, you bring that mirror with you.
Break it, Jean said.
How?
With a gosh dang rock. Jean leaned forward. I'm a mirror too, Elsa. You remember that. "
― Kristin Hannah , The Four Winds