" Ooan?” I said. I hadn’t called it that for years. My older siblings called our parents by their names, and I had begun early to imitate them. Now, though, I was afraid. I did not want “Nikanj.” I wanted “Ooan,” the parent I had most often gone to or been carried to for healing or teaching. “Ooan, can’t you change me back? I still look male.” “You know better,” it said aloud. “But …” “You were never male, no matter how you looked. You were eka. You know that.” I "

― Octavia E. Butler , Imago (Xenogenesis, #3)