QUOTE : If her feelings belong to you, she will come back to you, if not, she will never, whatever you do. You probably will think about what to do then: if everything has already been predetermined, why should I make any effort to gain her love instead of doing absolutely nothing and just passively waiting for future results? However, it has already been predetermined that this also doesn’t depend on you – you simply cannot choose to be a passive observer – just like it is not at all in your hands whether to love her or not.