" We also treat ourselves the way our parents treated us. We scold and punish ourselves in the same way. You can almost hear the words when you listen. We also love and encourage ourselves in the same way, if we were loved and encouraged as children. “You never do anything right.” “It’s all your fault.” How often have you said this to yourself? “You are wonderful.” “I love you.” How often do you tell yourself this? "

― Louise L. Hay , You Can Heal Your Life