" Questioning works better than telling. That’s why Will didn’t tell Evan, “Don’t let your friends get you into trouble.” Instead, he asked questions that made Evan think, “Who’s likely to get into trouble, and what should I do if it happens?” In other words, Will didn’t talk down to Evan, or talk at him. Instead, the two talked side by side emotionally as well as physically. "

― Mark Goulston , Just Listen: Discover the Secret to Getting Through to Absolutely Anyone