" Remember, your example will last a long time. As family therapist Peggy Papp reminds us, the quality of a mother’s life and her courage are among her most important legacies to her daughter. “A woman who can believe in herself when no one else does, who will fight for herself when no one else will, who will continue to struggle even though she is unprotected, this woman demonstrates to her daughter that these possibilities exist.” One great gift a mother can give her daughter is to live her own life as well as possible. To do so is a gift to her son—and herself—as well. "

― Harriet Lerner , The Mother Dance: How Children Change Your Life