" I’m convinced these are the moments that ultimately make us or break us. Like a wave lapping against the same boulder day after day, eroding the stone, shaping the line of the shore, the ordinary minutia of our lives holds the real power, and thus all the hidden danger. The daily things we do, or don’t do, without ever understanding the long-term ramification of such minor acts. "

― Lisa Gardner , The Neighbor (Detective D.D. Warren, #3)