" In an argument, you try to win over the other creature. You get your opponent to agree on a solution, or to make a choice. While both a fight and an argument start with a disagreement, only an argument can make both sides happy. How? By reaching an agreement that benefits both of you. In the best kind of argument, both sides think they won. "

― Jay Heinrichs , How to Argue with a Cat: A Human's Guide to the Art of Persuasion