" When you’re in the midst of initiation, when your “old” womanhood is dying away, you may think you’ll be stuck in the dying place forever. You cannot see beyond it. It is hard to keep moving, to put one foot in front of the other, because they are always landing on some new and unfamiliar plot of ground, and half the time that place is a swamp. For weeks I’d been walking in swamps, feeling lost. I didn’t know which way to go next. "

― Sue Monk Kidd , The Dance of the Dissident Daughter