" Plus, there were the children to consider. They were, for me, the biggest concern of all...But what if I challenged the institution? Not setting the "proper and accepted" religious example for them conjured up images of the bad mother, the worst mother. Yet wouldn't the example of a mother being true to her journey, taking a stand against patriarchy, and questing for spiritual meaning and wholeness, even when it meant exiting the circles of orthodoxy, be a worthwhile example? "

― Sue Monk Kidd , The Dance of the Dissident Daughter