" Ego contraction, however, prevents precisely the free expansion that enables us to find our connection to spirit. This is often described as the difference between the self and the Self. The self is the isolated ego clinging to its small reality; the Self is the unbounded spirit that can afford not to cling at all. Detachment means that you live from the Self instead of the self. "

― Deepak Chopra , The Seven Spiritual Laws for Parents: Guiding Your Children to Success and Fulfillment