" You said to your mind, " I want everyone to like me. I don't want anyone to speak badly of me. I want everything I say and do to be acceptable and pleasing to everyone. I don't want anyone to hurt me. I don't want anything to happen that I don't like. And I want everything to happen that I do like." Then you said, " Now mind, figure out how to make every one of these things a reality, even if you have to think about it day and night." And of course your mind said, " I'm on the job, I will work on it constantly. "