" When people confide their deep hurt to you these days, you are at a loss for what to say. A long time ago, you used to say, " I'll be praying for you," and you always meant to do that, to take those heavy burdens off their shoulders and hoist them up to the Lord. But the truth is, you usually forgot. Usually, this was the thing you said to end the conversation, a nice way to say, " I'm sorry. I can no longer handle the depth of your pain. I don't want to talk about this anymore. "