" My mother and brother don’t need me to leave word to know where I am. And this is how things are between Cyra and me,” Akos said, defensive. “She plotted for weeks to send me away without telling me about it. How is this different?”
“It is not particularly different,” Ara said. “But that doesn’t make it right, either time.”
“Don’t scold him, Mom,” Jorek said. “He was basically born scolding himself. "

― Veronica Roth , The Fates Divide (Carve the Mark, #2)