" When we overthink, we stop acting boldly and hide behind our endless streams of questions, objections, and insecurities. We drive away people and opportunities that are meant to be in our lives by overwhelming them with our expectations, stipulations, and worries. We shut off our hearts and allow our minds to work overtime, essentially turning ourselves into hamsters in wheels—endlessly grinding but going nowhere. "

― Mandy Hale , I've Never Been to Vegas, but My Luggage Has: Mishaps and Miracles on the Road to Happily Ever After