" Real love is considerate but has no concern.
If you really love a man, you'll be considerate of his 'true need' but you won't show un-necessary concern for his foolish, stupid fantasies.
'Consideration' means you will see that this isn't a real need but an 'ego need', you won't fulfill it. "

― Osho , Love, Freedom, and Aloneness: The Koan of Relationships