" In the moment when I truly understand my enemy, understand him well enough to defeat him, then in that very moment I also love him. I think it’s impossible to really understand somebody, what they want, what they believe, and not love them the way they love themselves. And then, in that very moment when I love them—” “You beat them.” For "
― Orson Scott Card , Ender's Game (Ender's Saga, #1)