" Centuries of social conditioning has created a generational fear among women of being perceived as masculine.This is where all the shaming and labels come into play, which perpetuate the oppression of girls and women. As a society we shame girls with deep voices or masculine features and we shame boys with soft voices or effeminate gestures. Girls get called " too manly" and boys get called " too girly" . The only solution I can think of is to be unashamedly " you" . If that means challenging stereotypes and gender norms, go right ahead! "