" Whatever we set as our loftiest goal and make our highest priority—that is, our highest love—orders everything else that we want and do in our lives. This idea brings together two essential drivers of human identity: our nature as desiring beings and our nature as moral beings. Unlike animals, which act purely and reflexively from instinct, we have desires about our desires. This means that we are able to reflect on whether we want the desires we have and to choose other ones. "

― Jonathan Grant , Divine Sex: A Compelling Vision for Christian Relationships in a Hypersexualized Age