" As Robert Mulholland says: “Our cross is the point of our unlikeness to the image of Christ, where we must die to self in order to be raised to God into the wholeness of life in the image of Christ. . . . So the process of being conformed to the image of Christ takes place right there at that point of our unlikeness to Christ. "

― Ruth Haley Barton , Sacred Rhythms: Arranging Our Lives for Spiritual Transformation