" Generosity says a great deal about a person's emotional and spiritual development. When it's hard to give, or it feels like ripping away a part of the self, we are still anchored in our attachments or stories we've created about scarcity. If this applies to you, make friends with the part of you that feels resentful or finds it difficult to give. "

― Charlotte Kasl , If the Buddha Dated: A Handbook for Finding Love on a Spiritual Path