" Every time I run a public dialogue event, I always begin with a quick explanation of what dialogue is and isn’t: It isn’t saying “everyone is equally right,” and it isn’t debate or argument. It is a chance to hear one another out and seek to build understanding while acknowledging that we still want to change one another’s minds. "

― Justin Lee , Talking Across the Divide: How to Communicate with People You Disagree with and Maybe Even Change the World