QUOTE : There's a curious thing about pain," said Audrey. "In the beginning, it's an enemy, it's something that you don't want to face or think about or deal with. Yet with time it becomes almost a friend. If you've lost someone you love very much, in the beginning you can't bear it, but as the years go by, the pain of losing them is what reminds you so vividly or them- that they were alive. My experiences and the people I lost in the war remains so vivid for me because of the pain.