" You know when you first touch a female when making love to her?” She didn’t wait for his reply. “That is how you should begin when kissing, slow, testing, soft. Kissing is similar to sex in a lot of ways. You wouldn’t just throw yourself on a woman and start pumping in her full speed would you? "

― Charlene Hartnady , Unlikely Mates (Chosen #3)(Unlikely Mates, #1-3)