" I’m learning that I have to practice forgiveness, and sometimes it feels as if I have to do it moment by moment. Whenever the trigger gets pulled or the cloud of shame descends, I’m learning to see it as an invitation to forgive. My negative reaction means I’m aware of my lack of releasing my grudge or pain against them. It also means I can learn to let go of the hurts they caused. "

― Cecil Murphey , Not Quite Healed: 40 Truths for Male Survivors of Childhood Sexual Abuse