" Life is about having the courage, or finding it along the way, to become a fuller person so that you can enjoy it more and feel more alive by pursuing interests that might be out of the ordinary. It is about finding joy in connecting with others, even when those connections involve the risk of getting hurt.

It is about being fueled by curiosity, not by fear. "

― Dolores Derrian , Polyamory and BDSM: Discovering Love, Sex, Vulnerability and Radical Honesty