" Clare Lyonette of the University of Warwick in the UK says that when she and her colleagues did a study on the division of labor between parents of young children, they discovered that while the women were frustrated at doing the bulk of the housework, they were mollified by their belief in what Lyonette calls “the myth of male incompetence”—that men were lousy at it, anyway. "

― Jancee Dunn , How Not to Hate Your Husband After Kids