" Some people think the theists get off easy by offering eternal life, but in my experience it is awfully difficult to reconcile the death of a child with the idea of a loving God. As a Christian, I knew what to say, but I don’t think my words made much of a difference. What mattered most was just being there and sharing the hurt. "

― Tony Campolo , Why I Left, Why I Stayed: Conversations on Christianity Between an Evangelical Father and His Humanist Son