" The thing of it is, don’t love each other for wealth or money. You have to love each other because you love them. You feel that in your heart. You don’t care if they get old or if they get sick or if they get wrinkles. You don’t care about anything else, but just for them. You love them. And you don’t pretend to love them because of what they give you; you don’t pretend to love them because they’ve got money. You just have to love them because it’s somebody that you’d like to spend the rest of your life with. "

― Karl Pillemer , 30 Lessons for Loving: Advice from the Wisest Americans on Love, Relationships, and Marriage