" She is able to draw the line between who she is and who she is not on every level, so she is able to discriminate without ambivalence—whether it’s about a skirt or a man that simply isn’t right for her life. It also makes it easy for her to ignore the pressure to be all things to all people, and to appreciate the company of herself—with a book, a glass of wine "

― Debra Ollivier , Entre Nous: A Woman's Guide to Finding Her Inner French Girl