" I am not here for your understanding of who I am. I am here for your understanding of who you are. I am your mirror. How you feel about me, what you see in me, the thoughts that arise from your encounter of me, the judgments you hold about me, are all reflections of you. They have nothing to do with me. "

― Emily Maroutian , Thirty: A Collection of Personal Quotes, Advice, and Lessons