" They too struggle with the expectation to look sexy but not to feel sexual, to provoke desire in others without experience it themselves. Our daughters may not be faced with the decision of whether to strip for maxim, but they will have to figure out how to become sexual beings without being objectified or stigmatized. "

― Peggy Orenstein , Cinderella Ate My Daughter: Dispatches from the Frontlines of the New Girlie-Girl Culture