" Pausing to take a good look at yourself can be intimidating. What if you aren’t the great person you think you are?
Sometimes self-care is hard because it means facing things you’d rather pretend aren’t there. Self-examination is uncomfortable. It requires a level of honesty that you may not feel prepared to handle. You may fear admitting that you have been the one sabotaging yourself, knowingly or unknowingly, or you may be terrified of acknowledging that you need to crack down on your self-discipline in order to be your best self. Self-care means recognizing that you’re weak in some areas. It means you have more agency and control over your life than you may be comfortable accepting. "
― Arin Murphy-Hiscock , The Witch's Book of Self-Care: Magical Ways to Pamper, Soothe, and Care for Your Body and Spirit