" It all goes back to our earliest experiences and the way they shape the rest of our lives. Did you know babies can pick out their mother's face minutes after they're born? Forty weeks in utero means they're already pretty bonded, so being abandoned is a big thing. Even though your kids were given away the minute they are born, they're still going to remember it at some level, and it's still going to be devastating for them. "

― Martin Sixsmith , The Lost Child of Philomena Lee: A Mother, Her Son and a 50 Year Search