" To be honest, there's nothing inherently wrong with ascribing to and using these labels—they're useful to an extent. All I'm saying is, these externalities shouldn't be the primary anchor for who you are. Because there will be certain moments in life when these labels may not be strong enough to hold you up. "

― Arriane Serafico , Existential Courage: A Survival Guide For Your Existential Crisis (And All The Ones After That)