" No one had ever winked at me before. Not like that. Such a bizarrely confident wink. If he wasn't so young, and if I wasn't one hundred percent sure he was gay, I'd almost think he was hitting on me. But that's impossible. He's a pretty boy who likes boys, and I'm a tomboy who might not even know I like chicks. But who the hell cares why he winked, right? He made me laugh. So I wink back. "

― B.T. Gottfred , The Handsome Girl & Her Beautiful Boy