" I want him to see how hard my life is, how much easier he could make it, how unjust it is that he won't. I have this idea that he is a bad man who is stealing my time and energy - that is meant to be a feminist reading of what's happening, but the truth is I don't conceptualize my time as mine in the first place. He can't steal something that I don't consider my own. "

― Nina Renata Aron , Good Morning, Destroyer of Men's Souls: A Memoir of Women, Addiction, and Love